What people with ADHD really need (and it's not another planner)
- Michael Ling
- 4 days ago
- 1 min read
Most adults with ADHD already have a drawer full of planners (some never even taken out of their wrapper!)
They have tried daily lists, weekly spreadsheets, colour-coding, habit trackers, and productivity apps. Some work briefly, but most are abandoned with a familiar sense of disappointment, often because the novelty of something new has worn off.
The problem is not the tools, but the expectation that one tool will fix a system-wide issue.
What adults with ADHD often need is not more organisation, but more understanding; understanding of how their energy fluctuates, and how emotions impact focus. Realising how perfectionism and fear can stall their progress, and how much effort goes into appearing 'fine'.
Practical support matters, but it needs to be flexible, personalised, and responsive. You need to have systems that bend when life does, not collapse completely, and this is why one-size-fits-all solutions rarely work long term.
ADHD coaching focuses less on the tool and more on the fit. It is about finding what works for you, what is sustainable, and tailoring it to fit your personal goals/situation.
If you are tired of starting over with new systems, it might be time for a different kind of support.
You can book a no-obligation discovery call here: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule/732120dd
“If a system only works on good days, it isn’t a supportive system.”





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